Saturday, September 4, 2010

Creating a 'new normal'

Mike's sweet cousin Cami sent us this story after reading this
post about creating our "new normal".
The story really hit home, and I really enjoy the quote at the end.

On November 18, 1995, Itzhak Perlman, the violinist, came on
stage to give a concert at Avery Fisher Hall at Lincoln Center
in New York City. If you have ever been to a Perlman concert,
you know that getting on stage is no small achievement for
him. He was stricken with polio as a child, and so he has
braces on both legs and walks with the aid of two crutches.
To see him walk across the stage one step at a time,
painfully and slowly, is an awesome sight.

He walks painfully, yet majestically, until he reaches his chair.
Then he sits down, slowly, puts his crutches on the floor,
undoes the clasps on his legs, tucks one foot back and
extends the other foot forward. Then he bends down and
picks up the violin, puts it under his chin, nods to the
conductor and proceeds to play.

By now, the audience is used to this ritual. They sit quietly
while he makes his way across the stage to his chair. They
remain reverently silent while he undoes the clasps on his
legs. They wait until he is ready to play.

But this time, something went wrong. Just as he finished
the first few bars, one of the strings on his violin broke.
You could hear it snap-it went off like gunfire across
the room. There was no mistaking what that sound
meant.There was no mistaking what he had to do. We
figured that he would have to get up, put on the
clasps again, pick up the crutches and limp his way
off stage-to either find another violin or else find
another string for this one.

But he didn't. Instead, he waited a moment, closed his
eyes and then signaled the conductor to begin again.

The orchestra began, and he played from where he had
left off. And he played with such passion and such
power and such purity as they had never heard before.

Of course, anyone knows that it is impossible to play a
symphonic work with just three strings. I know that,
and you know that,but that night Itzhak Perlman
refused to know that.

You could see him modulating, changing, re-composing the
piece in his head. At one point, it sounded like he was
de-tuning the strings to get new sounds from them that
they had never made before. When he finished, there was
an awesome silence in the room. And then people rose
and cheered. There was an extraordinary outburst
of applause from every corner of the auditorium.
We were all on our feet, screaming and cheering, doing
everything we could to show how much we appreciated what
he had done.

He smiled, wiped the sweat from this brow, raised his bow to
quiet us, and then he said - not boastfully, but in a quiet,
pensive, reverent tone - "You know, sometimes it is the
artist's task to find out how much music you can still make
with what you have left."

What a powerful line that is. It has stayed in my mind ever
since I heard it. And who knows? Perhaps that is the
definition of life - not just for artists but for all of us.

Here is a man who has prepared all his life to make music
on a violin of four strings, who, all of a sudden, in the
middle of a concert, finds himself with only three strings;
so he makes music with three strings, and the music he
made that night with just three strings was more beautiful,
more sacred, more memorable, than any that he had ever
made before, when he had four strings.

So, perhaps our task in this shaky, fast-changing,
bewildering world in which we live is to make music...
at first with all that we have , and then, when that is no
longer possible, to make music with what we have left.

Thank Cami, we both really enjoyed this story!

ps: yesterday was a month since Carter was born,
I can't believe it's already been a month!
Love you angel baby!


Stacie Couch said...

Ok really now, these posts are tear jerkers! I really appreciate you putting your heart out there for us to get a sneak peak at. What a great story! I definitely learned from it, it hit home to me today :) Even though life doesn't always go the way you want, you have to keep going and continually work with what you have! Love you Megan!

Tara said...

These posts are really heartfelt. And it's true, you have to create your new "normal". Everyone does with what they are given in this life, whether it's blessings or trials, or both. Your experience is such an example to everyone. I'm glad you invited me to your blog so I could get caught up on your life.

Tricia said...

Awesome story...such a true and inpiring message in it. I really appreciate your blog. It helps me realize what strong and amazing people are in this world. It has really helped me to put life into perspective and get my priorities in order. Thank you!

Cami said...

I'm so glad you liked it. Love you both. =)

the Youngs said...

Megan, thanks for sharing your life in your blog. It's amazing to see how close we can become to the Lord in our trials...and our blessings. I love the music on here, too! I've just left your blog up to listen to the music this morning. :)